Outbound VS Content: The Truth

(wish I knew this sooner)

Every B2B founder goes through this. 

I’m not talking about burnout.
Nor lead droughts.
Not even rejection.

Something darker.

The void. 

The silence. 

Where your outreach emails and DMs disappear into the ether with no response, no reply, no signal that anyone is listening.

You hit “send” with fire in your gut.

The pitch is strong. The copy is clean. The offer is real.

Then you wait. 

You refresh. 

You stare at your inbox like it owes you something. And…

Nothing.

Your message - the one you knew could change someone’s business - vanishes like smoke, drifting through the forgotten corners of someone’s inbox.

And that’s when the ache in your chest begins…


But it gets worse.

You open up LinkedIn and scroll past another “just closed 3 new clients through cold outreach!” post.

You look at their email framework - BASIC.
Their offer - AVERAGE.
Their writing - ROBOTIC.

And yet… they win.

Replies. Revenue. Recognition. 

And you whisper to yourself:

“They’re not even that good - what the hell am I missing?”

Believe me, it isn’t about your skills or your worth. 

You lack leverage.


I’ve been there.

Grinding like a beggar while telling myself “this is the price of the dream.”


Yeah, I signed clients.

But they weren’t partners - they were parasites.

High demands. No boundaries. And zero respect for the mission I was bleeding for.

I was chained to something that looked successful from the outside…
But felt like a cage from the inside.

So one day - quietly, I drew a line in the sand. I made a decision:

Speak. Loudly, publicly, and consistently.

I went all-in on content. I made a pact to myself that I would post every single day on LinkedIn for the next 12 months and expect absolutely nothing in return. 

At first, it was a whisper in the wind.

But behind the curtain, where real power brews, something was shifting. 

Because after a few months, it happened.

Prospects began jumping on calls saying “we’ve been reading your content.”

Dream clients - not just leads - started coming to me.

Top-tier talent applied, not because of a job board… but because they believed in my mission.

Doors opened without me knocking.

Podcast invites. Speaking gigs.

And that’s when I realized the truth:

Leverage in your name. In your brand. 

In your positioning, your presence, your perception.

Leverage is the real game.

It’s power. Multiplied.

Time bending in your favour. 

And when you stack that kind of asymmetric force over time?

  • The rules shift.

  • The board tilts.

  • And suddenly, gravity is working for you.

Your dream team finds you.
The right clients show up already bought in.
Investors call you.

You stop chasing.
You start pulling.

But here’s why most never succeed:

  • They want the fire without striking the flint.

  • They post twice, get silence - and retreat.

  • They imitate tactics - without understanding the engine behind them.

  • They quit with gold buried inches beneath their feet.

But not you.

Not if you’re here to build something that outlives the noise.

If you want to win - I mean really win - you need two weapons:

  1. Attention.

  2. Belief.

Not belief in metrics.
Not belief in trends.
Belief in you. 

Before anyone claps.
Before the world listens.

Because the results? Oh, they come.

But only for the ones who kept swinging in silence.

So here’s what you do next.

  1. You commit.

Twelve months. Every single day.

You post when it’s quiet.
You post when it hurts.
You post when it feels like no one’s listening - because that’s when it matters most.

Next?

  1. Study the game like your life depends on it.

Dissect. Analyze. Reverse-engineer every word that made you stop.

Authority. Story. Simplicity. Truth.  Learn the psychology of how attention works. 

Then…

  1. Find your tribe.

The real ones.

The ones bleeding beside you in the trenches - not sipping cocktails on a yacht pretending it was easy.

Seek feedback. Ruthlessly.

One hard truth is worth more than a thousand fake compliments.

Now share the mic. Trade audiences. Stack leverage with others playing long-term games.

Above all?

  1. Stop waiting.

Start now.
Start messy.

You don’t “build” a personal brand.
You become the kind of person who owns one.

And one day?

You’ll walk into the room.
Heads will turn.
Whispers will start.

NOW they’re replying.
NOW they’re leaning in.

And it will feel like people have been waiting for you all along.

Because they have.

Why?

Suddenly, the underdog becomes the Undeniable.

-Yours truly,

Nigel Thomas